When I first started catering assignments two weekends ago, I met a couple of new friends. He’s a great friend to talk to about everything, but I don’t feel for Aaron one damn bit. Once again, a new guy friend I just met, who once again wants me. Why can’t they keep it in their pants? Am I that irresistible? All these men who want me and I want none of them. I could tell right away he was into me. Did I mention he’s black? I like talking about the past and learning from it, not to mention that’s just something to talk about. He tried to grab my hand to hold it a few times when we walked my dog and I did not respond back, trying to get him to see that I wasn’t interested in him in that way. Then he had the nerve to bring it up saying well I talk about all these jerk men but he was trying to hold my hand. Um, don’t talk to me like I’m stupid. I can see you were trying to hold my hand, but I just don’t see you in that way, that’s why I flinched and backed off every time.
You may try to seem like you’re a great guy to me, but you’re not the one for me and I don’t get that feeling at all. When you move too fast like that I know you’re just trying to get into my pants. Relationships do take some time. Are you kidding me in giving me some ultimatum I don’t want to be just friends when you’ve only hung out with me uh THREE times? I don’t want to be single, either, but you aren’t the guy for me. I know right away if something is going to happen with the person or not on the first day I meet them. If I feel no attraction at all on the first day, chances are, it’s not going to happen. Okay, so signs I’m not into you.
1- Obviously when I don’t respond back to a person when a person tries to hold my hand…don’t question me about it because that should tell you clearly I’m not into you that way. If I was into you, I would hold your hand back.
2- When I constantly talk about other guys from my past…uh, that should be clear as day.
3- When I don’t let you kiss me the first three times we hang out, at least a kiss on the lips, I’m probably not into you by then. A kiss on the first three hang outs is okay.
4- When you find yourself calling me more than I call you, yep, it goes both ways, including when I don’t return your phone calls.
5- When I want to end hanging out early and it’s 9 P.M. and I want to be done hanging out with you on a Friday night…see ya.
6- I try to come up with every excuse to let you down easy, but you still want to probe me anyway.
You know right now that I don’t have a car and I don’t have a stable job and the last thing on my mind should be trying to be with someone. It sounded like at first if I didn’t want to be more than friends with him then he didn’t want to hang out with me at all. I said, cool, if you don’t respect me as a friend, then you don’t get more of me. I asked him, so after hanging out with me and I was ranting and raving about politics and hating Obama who he likes, and all the politicians, I really don’t like any of them, talking about some factory workers being judgmental on me just because I have a college degree they don’t like that I have a way out from the factory and I’m using a college degree trying to get into a factory so some of the workers give me a hard time, and me telling you about all these girls who talk trash about me…I ask you do you think I’m a stuck up bitch?
I get the vibe he does even though he only said I was more so stubborn which is somewhat true I am stubborn, but hardly a stuck up bitch.
And yet, he still tried to get into my pants.